Clarion call to Indian Muslim woman enough is enough the need to return the QURANIC PARADIGM FOR INDIAN MUSLIM WOMAN
The problem could perhaps be traced to the baggage that MALE Muslims brought with them as first generation immigrants to the MALAYSIA.So the issue has to be forced upon them in their traditional strongholds….the Masajid.It is where a campaign for understanding, dialog and introspection should start.And don’t expect men to do that They never will.You have to slowly penetrate the Women’s enclaves of the Masajid, perhaps on Fridays, and kick off a debate on this complex and dangerous problem which has the potential of turning into a disaster like it happened with Parsis.Their race is almost perished.There are only about 400,000 Zorastrians living across the globe now.Shame for us Lkes PERMIN Syed Ibrahim who are condemning our daughter to social and intellectual infanticide.Keep being vocal you will be talaged by their son, you won’t be alone anymore.read more click this Permim President’s injustice to his ex daughter-in- law, Ustaz Jamal’s injustice to his wife Asha not fit to preach Islam over Minnal RTM
Now lisen to this
Some soul searching is in order for us to understand why meeting and marrying are so tough these days in our community. We haven’t even touched the topics of staying married and dealing with divorce. Perhaps meeting and marrying are difficult because we judge and critique ourselves and others constantly. At some point, we need to let go, to live and let live. We are Allah’s ambassadors on this earth, not His police force. Allah is very particular in asking us not to be judgmental, and to be tolerant. I wonder if it will be possible for us as a community to follow Allah’s Will in letter and in spirit – seeking to find solutions to the challenges we face instead of creating more problems.
Back to meeting and marrying, I have personally become extremely ambivalent, after many years of being very hopeful. It’s not that I wouldn’t like to get married, I just feel that I have wasted time, money, worry and effort I have wasted on what have really been futile efforts. Maybe it’s all just emotional baggage, but I don’t want to dismiss my ambivalence quite so casually. your search for Excellance, your life partner is a beautiful emotion in Malaysia
“And of His signs is this, that He created mates for you from yourselves
that you might find quiet of mind in them, and He put betweenyou love
and compassion. Surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect.”
(30:21)-Leave your loneliness behind and start searching your life partner, find your soulmate An online in search of excellence dedicated to indianMuslims who are in search of Malaysian IndianMuslim life partner. If you are a Malaysian IndianMuslim very serious about marriageThe first step is to sent your best looking face via email and search for excellence your ideal marriage partner describe very brief sentyour email to our admin tracasserie112@gmail.com Unlike any other Malaysian muslim marriage services, online insearch of excellence your profile is only for our admin preview admin available only for Nikah purpose, no dating and no friendship allowed.we screen and investigate check before we let you know this service free of charge you are sponsored by muslimah to muslimah.click this to view your search In search Of Excellance-786 I spoke out about three weeks ago on my feelings and observations on the ways and means of meeting and marrying in the Muslim community. I made a sincere request on a friend’s blog to the INDIAN MUSLIM community, eligible men and their mothers, matrimonial sites and event organizers, and rishta aunties. I asked them to pay attention to me, and other women like me who are part of a growing population of single Muslim women over 30 (I am over 35) in our community.
‘Umar (may God be pleased with him) used to say, ‘May God grant His mercy to a man who shows me my faults’. And he used to ask Salman about his faults when they met, saying, ”What things have you heard about me that you find dislikeable?’ Salman pleaded to be excused answering this but when he insisted, replied, ‘I have heard that you once ate two kinds of food at one meal, and that you have two sets of clothing, one to wear at night and the other for the day.’ ‘Have you heard anything else?’ he enquired, and he said that he had not. ‘These two things,’he said, ‘I now renounce’.
that you might find quiet of mind in them, and He put betweenyou love
and compassion. Surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect.”
(30:21)-Leave your loneliness behind and start searching your life partner, find your soulmate An online in search of excellence dedicated to indianMuslims who are in search of Malaysian IndianMuslim life partner. If you are a Malaysian IndianMuslim very serious about marriageThe first step is to sent your best looking face via email and search for excellence your ideal marriage partner describe very brief sentyour email to our admin tracasserie112@gmail.com Unlike any other Malaysian muslim marriage services, online insearch of excellence your profile is only for our admin preview admin available only for Nikah purpose, no dating and no friendship allowed.we screen and investigate check before we let you know this service free of charge you are sponsored by muslimah to muslimah.click this to view your search In search Of Excellance-786 I spoke out about three weeks ago on my feelings and observations on the ways and means of meeting and marrying in the Muslim community. I made a sincere request on a friend’s blog to the INDIAN MUSLIM community, eligible men and their mothers, matrimonial sites and event organizers, and rishta aunties. I asked them to pay attention to me, and other women like me who are part of a growing population of single Muslim women over 30 (I am over 35) in our community.
‘Umar (may God be pleased with him) used to say, ‘May God grant His mercy to a man who shows me my faults’. And he used to ask Salman about his faults when they met, saying, ”What things have you heard about me that you find dislikeable?’ Salman pleaded to be excused answering this but when he insisted, replied, ‘I have heard that you once ate two kinds of food at one meal, and that you have two sets of clothing, one to wear at night and the other for the day.’ ‘Have you heard anything else?’ he enquired, and he said that he had not. ‘These two things,’he said, ‘I now renounce’.
WERE IS SHARIZAT?CAN ANY BODY HEAR TO CRIES OF SITI NAZRIN “THEY KIILED MY TWO BABIES’,YET philanthropist is protecting ths PREDATOR
Hope and resilience are good but has its limits we can’t sort of dictate them but rather inspire and mentor. Everyone processes difficult experiences in various ways.Are Indian Muslim armchair philanthropists aware of the plight of 24-year old Siti Nazrin binte Mohd Iqbal?
If you cannot help dont stop others from helping them
MALAYSIAN INDIAN NGO’S to , NOT aware of the plight of INDIAN MUSLIM women. With a blend of research, personal relationships, and relevant narratives, muslimah journal@MALAYSIA has a deep understanding of the injustices occurring in Malaysia, and an even deeper desire to educate others on the issues they are so passionate about. We have failed to even investigate torturers,YET THIS SO CALLED ‘armchair philanthropist’ is protecting
ThIS PREDATOR
at times like a journal, filled with anecdotes from those they’ve met along the way. Though every so often the solutions they offer may come across as patronizing or the stories they present as anomalies, I believe the journal is a step in the right direction, openly discuss taboo topics, some which have not been presented in this magnitude before. Bringing issues to light is the first step in real change, and facing discomfort head on is precisely what they do. They posit a general framework of what is happening, what has been done, and most importantly, what needs to happen to drive change
at the very least 24-year old Siti Nazrin binte Mohd Iqbal had filed a complaint against her in-law Mohd BIN Katir Sultan(GEPIMA) for torturing her for more dowry, Siti’s father has given 800gms of gold valued at RM95,OOO. They still tortured me fron day one I enter their house. Mental and physical torture by Mohd bin Katir Sultan and his family for more dowry of RM100,000 in cash to buy a bunglow in Taman Rawther. MOHD son had only primary six , assaulted with hot iron,forced her to sleep in the storeroom and was fed with left over food.a withness tipped her father how she was forced to housework for the family of 12 people during the time she was pregnant they continue to torture her, her former husband and his mother pressed her baby while she was carring ,they kill my baby cried . They are supposed to bear half the cost of the wedding but they tricked my father to agree for the full cost of the wedding mohd even demanded rm 2000 commision from the caterer the catering was fully paid by my father what kind vulture is this man yet the so called
MOHD BIN KATIR SULTAN is the one who ended the relationship.He always remind me if i complain to my parents he will end our relationship me one day to announce, “It’s over.”ask his son , I got a piece of mail, which my husband had signed with the three words “Talaq, talaq, talaq,” meaning “I divorce you, I divorce you, I divorce you.” According to traditional interpretation, a Muslim man has to simply utter this word three times to divorce his wife While these situations are becoming in Malaysia among INDIANMUSLIMS, they still occur often enough to warrant some discussion on them. There are those families who will use the bride’s dowry as their own. Often in these situations, the bride’s dowry will be recycled for the groom’s sisters’ dowry. Sometimes, the groom’s family uses the bride’s dowry entirely for their own means and the bride does not benefit from it all. There have been horrible, true stories of the groom’s family agreeing to one dowry and after the bride is married (and I might add, no longer a virgin) demanding more from the bride’s parents. Threats of divorce are often used to entice the bride’s parents to give more dowry. In a country where shame is brought down on the divorcee, parents of the bride will do whatever they can to save their daughters this shame. Occasionally, the threat of physical violence is used. There really is no way these type situations can end happily. Even if the bride’s parents are able to scrape together more dowry, they will not be able to continue doing so and in the end the bride is either sent home in shame or sometimes killed in an “accident”.
Often people do not realize the dowry system has repercussions in many different areas other than the obvious horrible one stated above. Given the fact that a girl’s parents must provide a substantial dowry plus try to give her a college education or some form of formal education today, it is not surprising that the number of girl abortions are extremely high in India. Interestingly, India theoretically is a culture which places high value on females. The females of a family are the life-blood, the pride and honor of that family. It is a very contradictory situation to see such importance placed on females and then to see the abortion rates of female babies sky high. Most college-educated Indians I have spoken to, both male and female, stand in firm objection to the dowry system and see that the twisted form it has taken is responsible for the degradation of women. In these families, girl children are just as prized as boy children and parents are teaching their daughters of their own worth as a human being.
they still occur often enough to warrant some discussion on them. There are those families who will use the bride’s dowry as their own. Often in these situations, the bride’s dowry will be recycled for the groom’s sisters’ dowry. Sometimes, the groom’s family uses the bride’s dowry entirely for their own means and the bride does not benefit from it all. There have been horrible, true stories of the groom’s family agreeing to one dowry and after the bride is married (and I might add, no longer a virgin) demanding more from the bride’s parents. Threats of divorce are often used to entice the bride’s parents to give more dowry. In a country where shame is brought down on the divorcee, parents of the bride will do whatever they can to save their daughters this shame. Occasionally, the threat of physical violence is used. There really is no way these type situations can end happily. Even if the bride’s parents are able to scrape together more dowry, they will not be able to continue doing so and in the end the bride is either sent home in shame or sometimes killed in an “accident”.
It was ever the desire of religious people to discover their faults through being told of them by others; however, things have come to such a pass with us that the most hateful of all people are those who counsel us and draw our attention to our defects.
“A bad marriage is better than no marriage at all”, “so what if he doesn’t read, he’s rich”, “marry someone who likes you more than you like them”, “men can have their pick, don’t hold your breath that some great guy is going to come and sweep you off your feet” – are typical ‘helpful’ pieces of advice that I am given. I don’t find any of them helpful, or enlightened, but I do find them ringing in my head, raising questions and doubts about my own powers of reasoning and perception.
Drawing parallels to the story in the Quran which related how Prophet Muhammad engineered the opening of Mecca to Muslims through the Treaty of Hudaibiyyah, this taxidriver pointed out that change did not happen overnight.
“The success that was achieved certainly did not happen in the blink of an eye. Two years before the Opening of Mecca, a treaty known as Hudaibiyyah was sealed between Rasulullah S.A.W. and the Quraisy clan.
“None doubted the treatise. Yet clearly there were advantages behind the readiness and patience of Rasulullah S.A.W. in accepting the contract…As soon as the Treaty of Hudaibiyyah was sealed, Allah issued a commandment:
‘Truly, for your struggle (O Muhammad) We have opened a path to victory that is clearly to be seen,’”this taxidriver highlighted.
“The change that we desire to implement is based on solid blocks of stones, a distant cry from the empty rhetoric based on hate and dispute,” he said.
He added: “We must ensure that this INDIAN MUSLIM is not swallowed up by the fires of partisanship and sunk with reckless dogmatism. Remember ‘who sows the wind will reap a hurricane’.”
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